Dr. Asher Wilner

Funeral Service: Sunday, April 28, 2024 at 11:00 AM
Chapel Service
Shiva: Tuesday, April 30, 2024 to
Tuesday, April 30, 2024

376 Redfern Ave, #12 Westmount H3Z 2G5
Shiva Details:
Receiving guests on Sunday and Monday from 7:00 p.m to 9:00 p.m. 
Due to the advent of Passover shiva will be Tuesday from 7:00p.m. to 9:00 p.m. 

Cemetery: Eternal Gardens Cemetery
Donations:
The Jewish Hospital of Hope Eldercare Foundation  at 514- 738-4500 ext. 2124, 



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Golda & Allan Kligman - 4 days ago

Dear Barbara, Henry and Family, Please accept our deepest condolences on Lois’ passing, may the many cherished memories be a comfort to you at this very difficult time.

stephen feder - 5 days ago

Dear Wilner Family, Jo and I would like to extend our deepest and most heartfelt condolences on the passing of dear Asher. Over the past years our contact, while not frequent, was indeed meaningful and centred around the celebration of Pesach. It was during Pesach that the clan united - brothers and sisters, children and cousins and of course friends - to welcome in the spring, to ponder the value of freedom and to teach our children. Over time, these get togethers became less frequent but the memories remained strong. And so now Asher, as we come together yet again at the time of Pesach, we rekindle fond feelings; we send solid offerings of support to your family and celebrate the memories that endure.

Jud Levinson - 5 days ago

Dear Eric and Deborah - It is truly a passing of time with Asher's death. We were very close friends in high school. The bound was made stronger by our fathers being friends and psychiatrists. May his memory be a blessing. May Hashem comfort you among all the mourners of Israel.

Susan and Chuck Ticker - 6 days ago

Dear Deborah and family. We were very sad when we heard the news of Asher's passing. Chuck were childhood friends and went to elementary and high school together. Our thoughts are with you and the family at this difficult time. May Asher's memory be for a blessing.

Bob Franck/Denise Rochon - 6 days ago

Dear Debbie..Please accept our heartfelt condolences on your loss. Asher was a convivial colleague, passionate about his work and full of energy. We shall cherish the fond memories we have of him.

Veronique Virally - 6 days ago

Dear Deborah, my sincere condolences on this sad sad news. Asher was an amazing and kind dancer. I will remember his warm smile and his gentle manner, always joking, with a twinkle in his eye.

Anatol Touranski - 6 days ago

Dear Debbie and Family, please accept my sincerest condolences on this great loss. I will always remember him as a caring father, a loving husband and simply an excellent human being. I remember the creation process and the performance of your first exhibition, I remember how I was invited to you sons' Bar Mitzvahs, and the memory of how our teacher-student relationship developed into a very nice friendship holds a very special place in my heart. May Asher rest in peace.

Sue-zyn Kronick - 6 days ago

To the Wilner family. Our sincere condolences to you. May your memories sustain you during these difficult times. Fondly, Sue-zyn and David Kronick

mindy liberman - 6 days ago

Some of my best high school memories are of hanging around with Asher, his brothers and other friends in front of their house after school. Sincere condolences to the family.

Arlene Lutter - 6 days ago

The news of Dr Asher Wilner’s passing has profoundly saddened me . May I share a memory with his wife , boys and grandchildren which is close to my heart and one I will cherish forever . It was 2005 , my Mom Millie Lutter had passed away unexpectedly in 2004 and my Dad Lewis Lutter, was considering rather high risk Aortic valve replacement surgery. There was divergent opinions about it in our family .Dr Nadia Giannetti , my Dads cardiologist and I commissioned a consult from Dr Wilner as to my Dads thinking and clarity of mind to make the decision Dr Wilner and my Dad spent an hour together in the RVH heart failure clinic . I listened to part of it .standing outside the door . As a social worker & psychotherapist I was blown away by Dr Wilner’s gifted interaction with my Dad…. as my Dad's daughter I was filled with gratitude . At the end of the meeting. Dr Wilner’s concluding words to me “ I can only wish that at age 90 I would have the clarity of mind and speech that your Dad has . Hearing now that your husband and Dad suffered from dementia and at a far younger age breaks my heart . He deserved so much more . Wishing his family strength & comfort in their memories as they grieve the loss of a of a wonderful man . Arlene Lutter

Leslie Merrill Sahra Kott - 6 days ago

Sincere condolences to the family of my dear old friend and colleague Dr Asher Wilner. We were from a different time and such pure of heart idealists .Dr Wilner was such a good egg . May his memory be for a blessing ♡♡♡

Linda Beauclair - 8 days ago

Dear Deborah, my sincere condolences to you and your family for the loss of your beloved husband and father. He will be missed. Linda

Minna Shulman - 8 days ago

You are in my thoughts as you say goodbye to your beloved father, husband and grandfather, Minna

William Malkinson - 8 days ago

Dear Ben and family, Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss and you are all in my thoughts. Wishing you strength during these difficult days. May Asher's memory be a blessing.

marlene Brownstein - 8 days ago

Dear Family, So sorry for the loss of your beloved husband, father, father-in-law, brother, and brother-in-law. My memories of Asher go back to carpool days at JPPS. He had a delightful sense of humour. May your memories be sweet. Wishing all of you good health, long life, and the joys of the newest member of your family. who will hear countless stories of a grandfather who would have embraced his grandchild. Marlene

Harvey chazan - 9 days ago

Dear Eric, Please accept my condolences for the loss of your brother, Asher. May your memories keep him alive in your heart and soul. Harvey Chazan

Daniel Sigler - 9 days ago

My sympathies to the entire family. May you always find comfort in the memories you shared together.

Howard Margolese - 9 days ago

Dear Deborah and the Wilner family; My condolences on the loss of your husband and father. I remember Asher fondly as a teacher when I was a resident and later a colleague for many years at the Allan Memorial/MUHC. May your memories of Asher sustain you at this difficult time. He will be missed. BDE.

Endre Koritar - 9 days ago

I am so sorry to hear of Asher’s passing. I have fond memories of great dinners and conversations with Debbie and Asher. He had a great wit and incisive insights on a wide variety of topics. He will be missed by all. My condolences to Debbie and the family. Andy

Daniel Traub-Werner - 9 days ago

Asher was a wonderful colleague, and I often benefited from his wisdom. Please accept my sincere condolences to Dr. Zack and the family.

Joseph Fernando - 9 days ago

So very sorry for your loss, Deborah. I remember Asher so warmly from the times I met him, and often you as well, when I came to Montreal to present, or he came here, or we hung out amiably at a conference. My deepest condolences to you, your family, and everyone who knew and loved him.

Dushyant Yajnik - 9 days ago

My sincere condolences to the Wilner family. Asher was a teacher and colleague at the Canadian Psychoanalytic Society- Quebec English Branch.

Sarah Tobias - 9 days ago

Dear Daniel: My sympathies to you and the family on the passing of your father. I wish you strength at this time and may he inspire you to write beautiful stories in that way to honour his memory. Warm regards Sarah

Judith Setton-Markus - 9 days ago

To Debra and Family My deepest condolences on the loss of Asher. With warmest wishes Judy

Gilberte Mazaltarim - 10 days ago

To the family of Dr. Asher Wilner Z'L', please accept my sincere condolences. I worked at Jewish Eldercare. He was a wonderful person. May the wonderful memories sustain you during this difficult time. May his memory be a blessing . Sincerely Gil

Nancy Nissen - 10 days ago

Dear Debbie, Joshua, Daniel, Benjamin, and family, I am very saddened to hear this news. Asher was always so friendly and cheerful. I hope you find much comfort in treasured memories. My condolences. Nancy (Crawford) Nissen

Jo Ann Heft - 10 days ago

I was heartbroken to hear about this. He helped me through some very difficult times and think about him often. May his memories bring lightness to your hearts.

Rabbi Ronnie and Karen Cahana - 11 days ago

Dear Wilner Family— We enter Chag ha Pesach with an extra drop of sweetness removed from our wine glass. Asher was a beautiful man of depth and compassion. His memory will always remain a blessing. Baruch Dayan HaEmet— Rabbi Ronnie and Karen Cahana

John Carsley & Lee Tidmarsh - 11 days ago

Deepest condolences to Debbie, Josh and all the Wilner family from the Carsley’s.

Susan Elias - 11 days ago

Dear Wilner family, I am writing on behalf of my sisters, Ruth and Jane, and me, expressing our deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, brother-in-law and uncle. We lived two doors down from the Wilners. Our families were close. With four boys, their household was active to say the least. But at dusk you could see Saul Wilner watering his garden, a quiet refuge after a busy day. Over the years, we would host the Wilner family at our country home where Saul and his boys would sit for hours fishing in the middle of the lake. The last time I saw Asher and Deborah was at Tilli's Shiva where I also saw Eric and Claire-Jehanne and Sheldon and Lillian. We are very sad for your loss. May you find comfort in your shared memories and may you be spared further sorrow. Kind regards, Susan